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The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter However you are privileged to spend it – Happy New Year Most
children are fascinated, I think, by the idea of staying up till
midnight on New Year’s Eve — children with enforced bedtimes, at least.
I certainly had to go to bed at a certain time. Bedtimes for children
are wonderful because they buy parents some peace and quiet. I
cannot tell you what my bedtime was, but I do remember listening to
“What’s My Line,” lying in bed, while my parents enjoyed the show in
the living room. If you remember that program, it means you are as old
as I am. It dates us a good bit. My early New
Year’s Eves were spent at home, and I am quite sure I did not make it
to midnight. To say that my parents were not revelers is an
understatement. I am quite sure that all went to bed at their usual
hours. When I was about 5 or 6, we spent a New
Year holiday with my Memphis grandparents. Mama and Daddy went dancing
at the Skyway in the Peabody Hotel with several couples who had been in
their wedding. The men had all been friends of
Daddy’s in his young adult years in Memphis, and this was a chance to
re-live their courting days. If you or your parents went courting at
the Peabody Skyway that also means you are as old, or older, than I am. This
occasion was special for me because my very indulgent Memphis
grandparents promised that I could stay up till midnight if I wished. This
promise, however, did not mean that they would stay up. Grandmother and
Granddaddy went to bed even earlier than my Cleveland, Miss., family.
They and my three aunts who lived with them, retired at their usual
hours, leaving me with some snacks one of my aunts had thoughtfully
prepared. I watched TV for awhile, but there
wasn’t anything on of interest to a little kid. Remember, there were
only three channels then. After a while I turned
off the TV and played with some toys I had brought, but very quickly
that big, old house got very quiet. I was sure
that I heard the clicking of Grandmother’s dog Lady’s claws on the
wooden stairway. Lady had died sometime before. It wasn’t much of a
celebration, but I was determined. Being an only child had certain advantages, but this was not one of the times I felt them. I
do not remember if I actually saw the arrival of midnight. When my
parents came in from their big night out, they found me sound asleep in
Granddaddy’s big rocking chair and took me, sleeping, upstairs to bed. Later,
when I lived in Chicago, our church would have a big midnight service
on New Year’s Eve. All sorts of people would come. Some even came in
from Rush Street, which was Chicago’s red-light district. Today
I am content to watch on TV as the ball drops on Times Square. The
Bible says of God that “Our times are in thy hand.” That’s comfort for
me. Meanwhile, I hope you have a good New Year holiday, however you are
privileged to spend it.
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