Letters To the EditorImportance of dads Dear Editor, Divorce
has become commonplace; unwedded couples have begun to share homes and
have children. This has created homes with an absent parent, mainly an
absent dad. Child rearing once was exclusively
considered mother-oriented. The father’s major role was to bring home
the bacon. That changed with psychologist Fitzhugh Dodson’s 1974
publication of “How to Father.” His publication
brought to light that whether present or sometimes absent, fathers are
important and have a great influence on the lives of their children. According
to the U.S. Census Bureau, 24 million (34 percent) children live in
father – absent homes. Children who live apart from their biological
fathers are, on average, at least two to three times more likely to be
poor, to use drugs, to experience educational, health, emotional and
behavioral problems, to be victims of child abuse, and to engage in
criminal behavior than those who live with their married, biological
(or adoptive) parents. Girls who grow up in father-absent homes are more likely as teenagers, to become pregnant. (Fatherhood.org) President
Barrack Obama has stated, “It turns out that with the father being
involved, the kids are less likely to do drugs…girls are less likely to
get pregnant. And so that message is something that we want to make
sure gets out there.” Is the message out
there? Are we talking to our single dads and moms about this important
topic? What can our community, churches, and various organizations do
to help dads become dads, engaged dads? This is a
topic that we can no longer ignore. We must begin a conversation on
the importance of dads in the lives of their children. Our dads must be
made to feel needed and valued. Fergenia H. Hood Holly Springs Library cards Dear Editor: As
students head back to school, we encourage parents to visit the
Marshall County Library and make sure their children and teens sign up
for the most important school supply of all – a library card. September
is Library Card Sign-up Month, a time when the American Library
Association (ALA) and libraries across the country remind parents and
caregivers that a library card is the smartest card you can own. When
it comes to achieving academic success, a library card provides
students with access to a world of both print and electronic resources.
Students can access free databases, online homework help and attend
programs, activities and clubs that provide an added value to the
educational experience. No wonder that 84 percent of Americans agree
that the public library is important to education. Today’s
students learn differently than their predecessors, with studies
indicating that students most effectively learn when they are allowed
to follow their personal interests. Libraries and librarians are on the
frontlines of engaging these students, making a library card an
essential tool for inspiring a passion for learning. What
better place is there to explore and develop new interests than at the
library? Come into one of our branches in Holly Springs, Byhalia or
Potts Camp. Any member of the library staff can assist you. We ask that
anyone under 18 have a parent or guardian with them and anyone applying
for a card either live, work or own property in Marshall County. This September, open the door to a world of possibilities for the student in your life and sign up for a library card today. Respectfully, Amanda McDonald Director, Marshall County Library System
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