Wyatt’s World By Wyatt Emmerich Glorious October weather in Mississippi Ah, glorious October in Mississippi. Is there any finer weather in the world? April
and October are simply spectacular in Mississippi. I’d be hard pressed
to tell you which one I enjoy more. And now Daylight Saving Time lasts
all the way to November! April has the burgeoning
promise of new life and summer fun. October has the wistful joy of fall
and the excitement of Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas. This October has lived up to its billing with seemingly endless sunny, clear days. My
goal in October is to take the old sailboat out, an increasingly
challenging event to pull off with schedules packed full of events and
children’s activities. I had a sail planned this
past weekend, but it fell through minutes before my father-in-law Bob
Knight called to tell us he was on his way. Bob
aka “Night Train” is quite a character. Born and raised in
Taylorsville, he has never met a stranger and is one of the most
spontaneous souls I’ve ever met. At an early age,
Bob developed a love for flying, which he still does professionally.
Bob’s hijinks and exploits are legendary across the Mississippi
landscape. His redheaded grandson Lawrence takes after him. After
many years and many tales, Bob has reached a point in life where he
lives day to day and appreciates every moment. He is quick to laugh and
full of humility and perspective. The next thing
I knew, we had a multigenerational crew at Sakura Bana: 14-year-old
John Emmerich, 13-year-old Lawrence Emmerich, Bob Knight and his wife
Linda, Donna Knight and her 22-year-old son Connell, who had just been
admitted into UMC medical school. As the laughter
and conversation flowed, we chowed down on raw fish. Who would have
figured sushi would be so popular in Jackson? I marvelled at my company
and how I had watched each person at the table grow and develop over
the last 20 years. Can time really pass that fast? How could these
little babies be adults? Where does the time go? How precious it all is. After
dinner, we joined Ginny at the JA-Prep game. We were immediately
greeted by cherubic Ruth, face painted, smiling hugely, running this
way and that with her adorable friends. Everywhere around me were faces
of friends and acquaintances. At this point I
must add the following note: If there is a greater concentration of
beautiful women in the world than at the Prep-JA game, I am not aware
of it. We Mississippi men don’t realize how lucky we are. Ole
Miss was recently voted the “most beautiful” campus in the United
States and surely JA and Prep are huge contributors to this status, so
I bet my opinion on this matter is pretty accurate. And
the beauty on display is not simply one of shape and form, but of style
and effort. Mississippi women simply have an elegant sense of beauty
that accentuates everything they do. My hat is off to y’all. Speaking
of “y’all”: Please make an effort to avoid the disgusting Yankee
phrase, “you guys.” I am simply amazed how often I hear “you guys” come
out of the mouths of true Southerners who should know better. “You
guys” is something Guido in the Mafia would say. I cringe every time I
hear it. In contrast, “y’all” is grammatically correct, structurally efficient, beautiful to the ear and gracefully Southern. After
the game, we sat in the backyard at brother-in-law Terrell Knight’s
house soaking up the perfect temps and talking endlessly. Saturday
night, Ginny miraculously whipped up an impromptu dinner party at our
house. Dottie Cole, my mother-in-law, joined us,
as did Lucy Tucker, now a busy sophomore at Ole Miss. Wasn’t it just
yesterday that Lucy Tucker was a cute 10-year-old girl with nothing
better to do than hang around our house and run errands with me? Jim
and Emily Cooper joined us. Jim is like a surrogate brother to Terrell
and Ginny, and the laughter and stories about growing up in
Taylorsville went on for hours. One thing about the Knights and the
Emmerichs. We can do some talking. It was a miracle the neighbors
didn’t complain or at least insist on joining the party. As usual,
Ginny’s food was beyond compare. Then Sunday
night, I stopped by to check on my mom, Celia. Turns out cousin Mary
Elizabeth and Patrick Cochran stopped by with 3-year-old Jack. My
little girl Ruth loves Jack, so I called her to come over. “Why don’t I
bring over the steaks in the fridge,” Ginny suggests. Before you could
say Jiminy Cricket, I was sitting in my mom’s backyard hammock,
watching the steaks grill, mesmerized by the beams of a blazing full
moon behind two gigantic loblolly pines. Moonlight in the pines. Never
did make it out to the boat this past weekend. But it seems October
weekends just naturally fill up with good people and fun times no
matter what the plans. God never promised us paradise on earth. But there are fine October nights in Mississippi where it seems darn close. |