| The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter I may not like them, but I still give thanks for turnips The
year 1957 was a great time to be four. As it happened, that was the
year I was deemed old enough to spend an extended vacation with my
grandparents in Memphis. It was probably four or five days, but to me
it was an eternity, and my grandparents, thrilled with the opportunity,
were set to cater to my every whim. Along with
this came their opportunity to enjoy their new robin’s egg blue and
cream Chevrolet. Yes, it was a ’57 Chevy, and it stayed in their
household almost until these cars became collector’s items. The
first outing was across the Memphis-Arkansas bridge to West Memphis for
ice cream at a roadside stand. That was the “new bridge” then; my
grandfather explained to me how until then, one-lane plank roads had
been laid on either side of the railroad tracks on the Harahan bridge. (You
can still see the steel supports on that bridge today, and two teenage
New Year’s revelers from Beale Street lost their lives when they got
out on that old roadway and fell in the water a couple of years ago!) It was fun looking at the great river and at the trains on the adjacent bridges. It is an outing I still enjoy repeating. Then
we went to the fairgrounds, where I was allowed to climb on the old
Memphis Belle airplane, as well as the Frisco steam locomotive that was
displayed in the park nearby. Then it was out to the airport where we
parked in a pull-off area from South Airways near the runways, and
watched the planes take off and land. (This is now fenced off, but you
can still park on the far side of the street.) Those
activities, along with a Disney movie at the Orpheum and trips to the
Pink Palace and the zoo, rounded out the visit. We rode the
rubber-tired trolley downtown to the Orpheum, as one of my aunts had
the Chevy during the day. My grandmother made
all my favorite foods, especially her home-made apple pie, and I was
allowed to feed toast crusts to her pet canary, as long as I promised
not to open the door to its cage, as “Lady,” Grandmother’s white Spitz
dog, with butterscotch markings on her side, always beheld
“Tweetie-Pie” with a ravenous eye. On Sunday we
went to church, and I was given the choice of attending the children’s
class and meeting other youngsters my age, or of going to my
grandparents’ class so they could show me off. I chose the latter. My
grandparents’ church was much-advanced over our little church in
Cleveland, for Coca-Colas and fresh doughnuts were served between
Sunday school and worship. I had never seen such a thing before, and
was given ten cents, in addition to collection plate money, so that I
could purchase my fill. I had brought my
Christmas toys along and was allowed to spread them out on the front
room floor. My parents were sure I would come home spoiled, and I am
quite sure I would have except for this small incident which adds color
to these memories. When leaving home, I was given
careful instructions about many things, including “eat whatever you are
served, and say thank you for it.” This I very carefully did, and all
went well (for as I said, my every desire was being anticipated). However,
somehow a bowl of thin-sliced turnips found its way to the table for
Sunday dinner. Not knowing what they were, I took a good-sized helping,
and then was faced with the necessity of downing them, which I somehow
did, and even said “Thank you!” My grandmother
was so impressed that a little boy would like turnips that she served
them a couple of more times that visit. And every visit thereafter,
Grandmother would have turnips, because “she knew Milton especially
liked them!” Over time this became a source of family hilarity, with everyone “in” on the truth but my grandmother. The
turnips always appeared, and I always ate some — to the accompaniment
of knowing winks and nods from all others at the table. There
is a biblical verse that applies to this situation — St. Paul wrote it
urging Christians to be generous when others criticized them for eating
food that had been offered to idols. “If I
partake with thankfulness, why am I evil spoken of for that for which I
give thanks?” I had no knowledge of such things then, but when I run
across this verse (I Corinthians 10:20), I always think of
Grandmother’s turnips. By the way, I still do not
especially like turnips, but if you serve them to me, I’ll gladly eat
them and be grateful for a grandmother who tried so hard to please a
little boy!
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