| The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter Shame to regard Christmas with disdain Ron
Ferguson, minister of St Magnus Church of Scotland at Kirkwall up in
the Orkneys tells about an amusing incident in the Scots village of
Langholm. Last year the townsfolk contributed an entire week of shared
labor erecting Christmas lights throughout the village in preparation
for the big switch-on in November. There was a technical program that
caused the lights to go on earlier than planned, so that Langholm was
aglow with Christmas all through October! There
is no doubt that Christmas comes earlier every year as you get older.
But it is a shame to me that so many people seem to regard Christmas
almost with disdain than with anticipation. The sheer volume of
preparation and expenditure squeezes out the fun for many people. Too
much cooking, too much shopping, too many bills to pay come January. I
have frequently had people tell me with a straight face that they don’t
have time for church in the Christmas season because they are so busy
with . . . well, Christmas! Some people say that
what goes on in our American secular Christmas has nothing to do with
the birth of that baby in Bethlehem. They say that a national shopping
season has ridden into fashion, hijacking Santa’s sleigh. It is true
that more major purchases, like cars and washing machines, are
purchased in December, and decorated with ribbons and bows. And one
could ask how curious it is to celebrate the birth of a child born into
poverty in Bethlehem by spending lots of money on presents for people
who have more than enough already. I bring all
this up at the end of October because I am not ready to concede that
Christmas is evil, even though I do think that the stockholders of
Wal-Mart do take advantage of little children’s susceptibility to the
power of suggestion, causing Mother and Daddy to do things they
shouldn’t with the family credit card. I still think that every mention
of Christmas, no matter how crass or commercialized, still raises with
it, the possibility, at least, that people might consider the true
meaning of the season and find their way in heart and mind even unto
Bethlehem, and to the Child, lying in a manger. To
that end, why not resolve to make this Christmas more what Christmas
ought to be? By starting to think this way in October, one might
possibly avoid being in over one’s head come December. 1.
I find great meaning in the simple carols of Christmas. I don’t mean
the fluffed-up, “canned” versions that come at you via the Muzak. I
mean the simple carols, sung simply by a choir that does not make you
feel the manger has been moved to Las Vegas. 2. I also think it worth while to set a budget and stick with it. Do it for both calories and presents. 3.
My grandmother said that children rejoiced to get oranges and candy.
Well, fruit and home-baked goodies are still lots nicer than things
from a store. 4. Grandmother also said that one
of the highlights was the lighting of the Christmas tree. I know we
cannot turn back time to the 1880s, which is when she remembered. I
don’t want to do that and see no virtue in it even if we could. But
taking pleasure in the simple things is a timeless virtue, and it is
just counter-intuitive enough that I commend it as a possible way to
find happiness in an unexpected way. Figure out how to make the
children see this is special. They will thank you for it someday. 5.
Do for others, which is the basic lesson of Jesus and of Santa. There
are plenty of worthy causes, and I will not favor just one. The key is
to make your involvement in such a cause a joyful act, and then you
will feel you have received as well as given. I
believe the “commercialization” of Christmas is really to give the
season short-shrift. It’s easy to find ourselves serving up mass
produced presents from the mall in substitution for creative
thoughtfulness. You can’t do everything, and too
many people try. The best thing would be if we could teach a child the
true meaning of the season, so they could catch its spirit. If we did
that it would be the best present of all, don’t you think?
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