| The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter Grandma Reid always remembered the Sabbath  | | Grandma Reid rolls the dice |
In
the picture that accompanies this column, the lady rolling the dice is
Grandma Reid, the only great-grandmother I ever had. Grandma Reid was
not really my great-grandmother; she was my cousin Bill’s. But because
I was the only child of older parents and their grandparents had passed
away long before I was born, Grandma Reid functioned for me in a
great-grandparently role. As you can see from the picture, she always
had room for one more child, and I adored her. Grandma
Reid was a fun kind of person. Appropriately separated by age and
dignity, we would never have thought of misbehaving in her presence,
but she also delighted to enter our play, and as I recall she was a
serious competitor in Monopoly games. She seemed to call forth the good
qualities in the people who surrounded her. The world was a better
place for her presence in it. Like many elderly
ladies of that era, Grandma Reid had no home of her own. In my
childhood, she had sold her home and divided her time among her
daughters, paying each of them long “visits” at stated intervals of the
year. It must have been hard to give up one’s domicile and depend on
the kindness of adult children, but such thoughts never entered the
minds of us children who looked forward to her seasonal arrivals. Grandma
Reid — her real name was Lizzie Murdock (Mrs. Frank H.) Reid — was born
in Orrville, Ohio — the place where Smuckers jam is made. I think of
her every time I see their commercial! How she got to Mississippi is a
part of the story I never heard. She was a noted
Bible teacher in the Presbyterian Church. When she would come to my
town (Cleveland) she would always give a seminar for the Women of the
Church. I have a photo of her standing outside the Presbyterian Church
in Tallaluh, La., which she loved. That little church owes a great deal
to her labors, though there are probably few today who remember those
times so many years ago. One of Grandma Reid’s
great gifts was a little book she wrote in 1951 and entitled “Story of
the Bible,” which she wrote and had published so each of her
grandchildren could have a copy. It is the summary of a lifetime of
study and teaching. I am looking at our
family’s copy as I write. With all my years in college and seminary
studies of religion, I still cannot point to a better brief summary of
the Bible and its teaching than the little book Grandma Reid gave me
when I was just a little boy. At the time, I could hardly understand
it, and valued it just because she presented it to me. But through the
years I have read it over and over with ever-deeper appreciation. If I
had the means, I would give a copy to each child in my congregation, in
the hope that they would take its truths to heart. Here
is a sample of what Grandma Reid said. (Remember, she wrote more than
half a century ago, so our present sensitivities to gender-inclusive
terminology had not yet become an issue): “Remember the Sabbath; it is
the most important; it must not be forgotten; it must be observed every
seventh day. “Someone has said, ‘It implies there
was something in God upon which the Sabbath was founded. He was
refreshed by the Sabbath. There is a “need” deep in our nature. Indeed
it runs through all creation. So soon as matter in any form is passed
into the service of man, this law appears. Machinery, the animal
kingdom, and the human all need time to rest. “Yes,
Sabbath rest and change are a necessity. Wherever it is denied, man
retrogrades. The Sabbath saves from routine and so gives health and
mental vigor. Six days were given for the development and care of the
physical and mental, and one for the nurture of the spiritual. Man is
spiritual, as well as physical and intellectual, only the spiritual is
the supreme part of man. “The day is to be kept holy. To many it is a rest or recreation without giving the spiritual a chance. |