| Fielder’s Choice By Barry Burleson Second grade, college supplies It’s time to “get back in the routine.” I’ve heard that a lot in the past week or so from those of us with school-age children. And most parents look forward to those days. Classes began at most area schools either last week or this week. At my house, one of the hardest parts is getting them to bed earlier and waking them up earlier. But this year that’s the easy part – the hardest is getting ready to move the oldest of the three to college. We
will be heading south on Friday with dorm supplies aboard as Emma goes
to the University of Southern Mississippi in Hattiesburg. Emma
and I drove to Alabama Sunday afternoon for a visit with my mom. It
was a great day – something we had hoped to do before Emma moved four
and half hours away. On the drive over, I asked Emma, “What are your thoughts about college – excited, nervous? What are you feeling?” She basically replied that it had not sunk in yet. “I don’t really feel like I’m leaving,” Emma said. And that’s probably typical in this situation – for the parents and the children. I
mean one room of our house has a corner filled with things we will be
transporting to Southern Miss – pillows, sheets, towels, etc. We’ve been talking about college and planning for college for months. But
I guess it doesn’t sink in until it actually takes place – or better
yet, until you arrive on campus, unload, unpack, help them prepare
their dorm room and leave. We spent some quality
time with Mother on Sunday. I couldn’t help but notice some of the many
family pictures she has on display. There was one of Emma, as a child,
in her Sunday dress and clinging to her favorite Barney doll. Then in
another room there were several of her senior photos from the past
school year. We relived some of those memories Sunday and talked a lot about the future. We
went to church with Mother Sunday night. I grew up in that small,
rural church – Barn Creek Church of Christ – and it was good to visit
with good friends who helped raise me. It stirred
memories from my youth – the Sunday school classes, leading singing,
presenting Wednesday night talks from the pulpit, getting baptized and
more. After the service Sunday night, one
longtime friend talked to me about when he moved his youngest girl to
college. He said it didn’t sink in until he got back home, went to her
room and realized finally that all of her “stuff” was gone. He said he
and his wife then sat at the kitchen table a little while and cried. Of course, that made me feel better. It
is indeed an exciting time for the Burlesons – a daughter starting
college, a son driving (with a parent) and another daughter beginning
second grade. I was looking over Emma’s pile of
college material Sunday night and noticed on a table nearby things like
glue, notebooks, scissors, pencils – all part of a second grader’s
school supply list. I suddenly remembered a photo
of Emma when she was entering kindergarten at Aberdeen. She was sitting
in a desk – smiling. It was for a back-to-school edition of The
Aberdeen Examiner. That was 13 years ago. It seems like yesterday.
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