| The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter Wednesday night ‘prayer’ meeting If
the theologians are right that our deep yearnings are a form of prayer,
then everybody prays. The question is the refinement of those prayers.
In the olden days, one way this was done was by attendance at the
weekly prayer meeting held in all the churches. Rare
was the congregation that did not have a Wednesday night prayer
meeting. It was said that the strength of attendance on Wednesday night
was the measure of a congregation’s health. In my
own growing-up years, at Cleveland, we went to church at least three
times a week. There was Sunday school and church on the Lord’s Day
morning, then youth group and evening worship that night, and prayer
meeting on Wednesday. These things were non-negotiable; we children
went and generally, I think, had a good time. Each occasion included
music and, upon reflection, I realize that the other services than
Sunday morning provided that opportunity for the less formal kinds of
praise that, the other services having largely disappeared, churches
now blend into the main Sunday service. No doubt
about it, we spent a good deal of time at church. The largest
department store in our town, which was owned by a family who worshiped
in the local Hebrew temple, displayed a sign assuring the public that
their store always ceased business in time for the employees to attend
their weekly Wednesday prayer meeting. At our
church, the prayer meeting was held in the little chapel, an intimate,
small room, with beautiful stained glass windows, and furnishings
preserved from the congregation’s original building, which we had
outgrown some years before. Twenty or thirty people (out of a
congregation of 400) attended. The service, which lasted only half an
hour, began with our minister giving a brief devotional, usually a
meditation on a verse or two from the psalms. (These were drawn, I
think, from the commentaries by Matthew Henry and Charles Spurgeon,
long regarded as classics by Southern Presbyterians and others.) Over
the space of years, I think I heard every verse of the Psalter
discussed, except perhaps, those wishing destruction upon King David’s
enemies. Following the ten-minute devotional, the
minister reviewed the sick list and those present were invited to
contribute prayer requests. The joys and concerns of the community were
reviewed, after which someone in attendance was asked to offer a
prayer, after which the “floor” was open for anyone who wished to pray
out loud, and when the half hour drew toward its close, the pastor
would sum up the prayers and bring the meeting to its close. The
ability to compose such a prayer with thoughtfulness and some degree of
eloquence was the mark of a capable minister in that era. There
is no doubt that such occasions were to some degree the occasion for
religious gossip. Intimate details of unfortunate people’s lives were
shared — always, we were assured — so that we “might pray more
effectively” for their needs, including conversion. Sometimes intimate
parts of the human anatomy (usually about to be removed) were lifted
up, as it were, along with the surgeons, in heartfelt prayer for a
hospitalized person’s successful deliverance from illness or pain. After
the meeting, the women would huddle to lay plans to deliver food to
homes of bereavement, and the needs of homebound members of the church
and surrounding neighborhoods were not forgotten. When
I went after seminary to serve in a large church in Chicago I
immediately noticed the absence of the weekly prayer meeting. The
staff met for morning prayers where we prayed for ten members of the
congregation each day. Occasionally a church member would drop by to
join our intercessions, but the atmosphere was just not the same. The
intimacy of the small church could not be reproduced. Many
churches still have some sort of gathering on Wednesday evenings, but I
think the old-fashioned prayer meeting has largely gone by the way,
having been supplanted by “more interesting” activities, such as Bible
teaching, sermons, mission work, youth programs, suppers, and choir
practice. In our Holly Springs Presbyterian
Church, Sunday evening worship and prayer meeting went away in the
1950s, the casualty of busy lives (and network TV). But to this day,
some people still call the large space downstairs below the sanctuary
“the prayer meeting room.” Nostalgia for the past
can be a form of idolatry. There are many ways to pray, and prayer
takes its various forms. The question is, as I said, how to refine and
guide the deep yearnings of the human spirit.
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