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The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter If you can rearrange the kitchen without a quarrel... Last Saturday there were so many cars parked around
our church you would have thought it was a Presbyterian prayer meeting!
Alas, our agenda was much more prosaic; it was a congregational work
day. A dozen strong backs and willing hands from the congregation, as
well as our ever-cheerful friend M.H. “Sugar Bear” Hampton, contributed
“energy, intelligence, imagination, and love,” (that’s a favorite
phrase from the ordination vows for our church officers), and the place
was made to sparkle and shine. Small churches
live and die by minutiae. All churches probably. But who is going to
paint the white letters on the sign out front, or repair the catch that
holds open the door into the sanctuary? Those are “piddling” jobs for
professionals, and the minister really hates to ask talented church
members to do such odd tasks. So a lot of things go undone for years,
unless someone appears who likes to play Mr. Fixit. If that’s your
game, have we got a place for you! Preachers like
to tell the story of Mary and Martha, two women of Bethany on the
outskirts of Jerusalem, who with their brother Lazarus opened their
home to Jesus. Martha was busy in the kitchen but Mary “chose the
better part” and sat at the feet of her Lord. All
I can say is that Jesus was never the rabbi of a congregation, else he
would have known you cannot run a religious assembly without a good
many Marthas! Really, I wonder why we have to make a choice. Cannot a
person do both? That is what most of the members of my congregation do.
In fact, we had several gentlemen Saturday who came and helped the
“ladies circle” with their cleaning. Our church
opens several times a year for tour groups, and frequently for
individuals. So we like to keep it polished and nice for those who come
to see us. That is not easy since we “cannot afford staff” and most of
our members are employed full-time. I calculated
once that there are more light bulbs than members in our church. I
think there are about two lights per communicant. It seem that on
certain Sundays both humans and light bulbs seem to burn out. It is a
rare Lord’s Day that I do not pull out the ladder and change a bulb or
two before Sunday school. But that is minor compared to the Sunday the
chandelier shorted out with all the fire of a Roman candle, sending
members in the pew scattering like geese in a hail storm. Needless to
say, that ended the sermon for that morning. Some
of the ladies made sandwiches for our group, and as we munched I caught
up on lots of news and details from people’s lives. As I say, the small
church lives by its minutiae. I think our little congregation is
remarkably harmonious. I say that because a group of ladies rearranged
the entire kitchen, and (at least I) heard not a discouraging word! If
a congregation can arrange a kitchen without a quarrel, then no issue
will divide it. I know at least one church that
split when the altar carpet was changed from red to green, and they
told us in seminary that churches do not divide over issues like the
definition of the Holy Trinity but over what color to paint the
fellowship hall. And I do believe this. It is not
that religion is hopelessly trivial, it is just that such things
illustrate the realities of human nature. There is a beautiful prayer
that our ladies clubs use to begin their meetings, and it bears
repeating here: “Keep us, O God, from pettiness; Let us be large in
thought, word, and deed. Let us be done with fault finding and leave
off self-seeking. May we put away all pretense and meet each other face
to face, without self-pity and without prejudice. May we never be hasty
in judgment and always generous. Teach us to put into action our better
impulses, straightforward and unafraid. Let us take time for all
things; make us grow calm, serene, and gentle. Grant that we may
realize it is the little things that create differences; that in the
great things of life we are one. And, O Lord God, let us not forget to
be kind.” If we live by that, there is hope for all mankind.
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