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‘Diverse group’ forms new leadership class
By SUE WATSON Staff Writer
 | Photo by Sue Watson | Fun and fellowship
Having some fun at the recent Leadership Marshall
retreat are (from left) Martha Jackson-Banks, Chaundra Wright, Cheri
Page and Janice Wagg. |
A
diverse group of men and women will get the ride of their lives in the
next five months. Leadership Marshall 2008 will provide the ride.
This
year’s class of 16 includes five men and 11 women drawn from many walks
of life.
Most
are professionals working with local governments in various capacities
or as educators, or they specialize in smaller markets.
The
2008 class differs somewhat from previous classes in that the majority
of the members are not natives of Marshall County, according to Sarah
Sawyer, executive director of the Byhalia Area Chamber of Commerce. She
helps facilitate the course along with Janet Jolley, with the Marshall
County Extension Service, and Susan Jordan, with the Holly Springs
Chamber of Commerce.
“This
is a very diverse
group - a little smaller class,” Jolley said. “What is different this
year is the curriculum has been tweaked a lot. We’ve added time
management, networking and healthy lifestyles and we’ve taken out a
couple of courses.”
More
than anything, the members have to commit six or seven days of their
time to the project.
“That
to me is to be commended,” Sawyer said. “They are learning but they are
also giving (sharing their experiences and ideas). I noticed right off
they are a very confident group and very respectful of each other.”
 | Photo by Sue Watson | Marshall County leaders
Leadership Marshall class of 2008. From
left, front row, are Stephanie Movre, Sarah Kinkade, Millie Smith,
Susan Campbell, Chaundra Wright and Belinda McDonald, and back row, Bob
Pickard, Irma Jones, Janice Wagg, Pearlie Estes, James Sanderlin, Steve
Smith, Terry Morrison, Eric Randle, Connie Mason and Cheri Page.
Leadership Marshall kicked off the 2008 class of 16 members Thursday
with a two-day retreat that included a bus tour of the county and lunch
at Fitch Farms/Galena Plantation. The retreat continued Friday with a
busy schedule of introductory courses that will lay the groundwork for
the remaining classes, one per month until June graduation. |
One
topic of discussion presented Friday by Martha Jackson-Banks, with
Mississippi State Extension Service, presents a good example of what is
put on the table at Leadership Marshall.
Leadership
means effective communication and expanding awareness of how groups
work.
The
backgrounds and experiences of each person in the group affects
everyone in the group, Banks said.
“Attitude
can affect others and can change communities,” she said.
As
group efforts involve sharing of ideas and points of view, conflict
must be managed, even if it is minute, before it escalates. Once
conflict escalates is hard to resolve, she said.
Also,
nothing gets done and that causes people to drop out, lose their
motivation and drive, and apathy sets in, Banks said.
On
the other hand, moving forward through conflict is a big motivator.
Another
factor that is a must to make groups work is that the (human)
environment must be comfortable. When it is, people perform better and
are more open with each other, she said.
“If
you respect people, you will be amazed at what people will tell you and
how they will assist you,” she said.
In
a comfortable environment, people discover talents they
didn’t know they had.
“It’s
amazing what people can get done in a community of diverse
backgrounds,” she said.
There
are four distinct stages - forming, storming, norming and performing -
a group moves through in achieving its goals, Banks said.
The
forming stage is the orientation of the members to the group dynamics.
“As
you get to know people, you open up and express more,” Banks said.
The
storming stage is the conflict stage where members seek to find their
role in the group - how they will participate - and seek to reach
understanding in situations.
Some
old personal issues pop up during this stage - issues with authority.
“One
person should not dominate a group,” Banks said. “It’s OK to disagree,
but not alright to harbor feelings and start squawking. So, in the
storming stage you are working out your issues.”
Disbanding
of the group often occurs at this stage because members cannot get past
their differences or understand the issues.
In
the norming stage, group members begin to understand the group’s goals
and each person’s role.
Consensus
is involved at this stage and the group develops mutual trust and
members begin to understand each other’s backgrounds and experiences.
Members
come to realize there is history behind some things, she said.
The
fourth stage is the performing stage where members recognize each
other’s strengths and weaknesses. Roles are delegated, tasks assigned.
Some offer their skills and talents and members with money often become
philanthropic toward the goals of the group.
Not
all groups go to the performance stage, Banks said. Members run into
conflict and the group must go back and deal with the issues at a prior
stage before the group can move forward.
During
the group process, members learn much about themselves and others. They
learn that everyone does not communicate in the same way.
And
it is at this stage that members must learn that listening is important.
“As
we listen, we learn about their passion for things,” Banks said.
“Listening motivates a person to become actively involved.”
Studies
show that when people communicate they listen only about 25 percent of
the time, Banks said.
“Good
listening is one of the top skills needed in business,” she said.
“Sales improve by 30 to 40 percent just by listening.”
Communication
is 55 percent nonverbal, she said. Voice quality accounts for 38
percent of what is communicated. Words play a meager 7 percent of what
is communicated.
“Look
at the communication ratio
- the split in the tongue, the tattooed teardrop in the face, the
shaved head with I Love You,” said Banks. “All communicate something.”
Listening
is a choice, Banks said.
“You
can hear all day and not listen. You can choose to listen or be
thinking about other stuff.
“The
most basic of all human needs is to understand and to be understood,”
she said. “The best way to understand others is to listen to them.”
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