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The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter Grandmother’s button box held many ‘treasures’ Did
your grandmother have a button box? I recently came across my
grandmother’s when I discovered too late to take a shirt by the laundry
that it needed to have a collar button sewed on. My
grandmother sewed beautifully. Mama did some sewing, but Grandmother
really knew how. She could make all sorts of things from bolts of
cloth. All I can hope to do is sew on a button,
and that requires a lot of effort and does not come out looking too
neat. Now that my eyes are middle-aged, threading a needle is
difficult. It causes me to say some rather “un-preacherly” things! Grandmother’s
button box is in the bottom drawer of her sewing chest. All her life,
she used that chest for a bedside table. She kept the Bible on it from
which she used to read stories to me, and would sit in a large wicker
rocker sewing, crocheting, and knitting by the light of the afternoon
sun. The contents of that button box formed one
of my earliest sets of playthings. Being in the bottom drawer, I am
sure that as a toddler I “discovered” it early. Nothing gives a baby
such pleasure as to spill out something with many pieces and scatter
everything across the floor. Of course, Grandmother was happy to let me
do as I pleased in this regard. So those buttons became in my
imagination toy soldiers and railroad trains and levees along the river
and all sorts of other things. Now, I am sure
that allowing small children to play with a box of tiny buttons would
cause gasps from enlightened mothers of today. Yes, I could have
swallowed one and the results could have been catastrophic. But I never
did. As for the buttons, they were a collection
from the era when people did not throw even the smallest or cheapest of
things away. When a coat or dress or shirt became too threadbare for
further wear, it would be cut into dust cloths or some such use and the
buttons taken off to use on other garments as needed. That is why I was sure I would find a button to match my shirt last week, and indeed I did! Some
of grandmother’s buttons probably went back to her grandmother. Someone
with a good imagination could make up a lot of stories about what those
buttons would say, “if buttons could talk.” Children
have safer toys now (or at least if they are not made in China). And I
am happy for the progress we have made in regulating small things. But
sometimes I wonder if we major on the minors. This
morning I heard that the Congress is considering a measure to allow the
re-direction of money appropriated to build homes for people washed
away by Katrina to erect a new casino and re-work the port at Gulfport.
This even though there are still 8,000 people living in FEMA trailers
down there. I am glad children have safer toys —
although I doubt they encourage as much imagination as playing with my
grandmother’s button box did for me. But in focusing on all the small stuff, are we forgetting what Jesus called “the weightier matters of the law?”
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