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Museuming Lois Swanee Museum Curator Wicker, Renick and Stone Thursday’s guests Swanee’s
Mississippi Good News Happy Hour -- tune in to Radio WKRA 1110 AM every
Thursday, 2-3 p.m. Don’t miss this hour of local entertainment! This
week, the new senator, Roger Wicker, will be interviewed in a very
rare, privileged interview. Hear Roger’s true values and what he is
thinking and his political viewpoints. Also on the program will be a local, talented Marshall Countian, Mitch Stone, with his guitar. He is incredible. Also
on our program will be Bill Renick, telling us the state of Marshall
County, industry wise. Then, to fall in-between will be my rendition of
the weather, a few utterly delicious, but simple, local recipes, topped
off with some January poetry. Don’t miss it! Go
buy yourself a radio and preset the dial for 1110 AM. Get out your
alarm clock and set it for 2 p.m. Thursday and don’t forget to listen!
It is more fun!
Museuming Lois Swanee Museum Curator Down memory lane...My mother A
while back my mother dear was born on the last day of 1885 out from
Waterford here in Marshall County. She was so incredible. She was born
before all modern conveniences were invented. Electricity had been
invented but hadn’t come to Waterford yet so my mother had to read by
candlelight. However, back in those days, when the sun set people
retired. Firelight and candlelight weren’t very satisfactory; it was
easier to go to bed and wait until daylight for those important tasks.
She was born unto an agrarian society. Livings were made by toiling the
soil. Everything came off the farm rather than from the store? What
store? Money was scarce in that part of the woods. The people had
ingenuity and wonderful talent at getting the tasks done without the
money. We look back at it now and can’t believe the hardships they had
to endure just for simple things. Education was imperative but not
everybody received it. My mother went to the one-room school house in
her community, then was given the opportunity for more as she attended
a “Finishing School” in Tula. It was a choice between M.S.C.W. or the
school at Tula, but M.S.C.W. was much more expensive and further from
home. At age 17, she received her teaching certificate. She had to come
to Holly Springs to take her test for her teaching license, which from
Waterford, was for her, a two-day trip. Her family had a buggy, also a
wagon or maybe she came on the ‘stage’ from Waterford. She rented a
room at Tyson Hotel which stood until about 1960 at the corner of
Gholson and Market. In her room she saw her first electric light
hanging from a cord attached to the ceiling. When she got ready to go
to bed that night, she couldn’t figure how to blow out the light so she
slept with the bright light on all night. After teaching a year or two
she married my father, Conway Warren Bonds in 1906 in Waterford at the
Methodist Church. (My father’s grandmother was a Conway. Dr. Warren
delivered him out from Waterford at his home around Spring Hill Church.
His family gave the land for the church.) In 1909
my Mother and Daddy moved to Waterford from the farm. My daddy owned a
general merchandise store on the main street, in addition to his
farming. In 1918 after my Grandpa Bonds died, all my family moved to
Holly Springs where my daddy went into business again. But my mother
wasn’t through yet. She was aiming ultimately to move to Memphis. She
went to Memphis and selected a big house on Union Avenue; where WMC TV
sits today. She didn’t get this part of her dream realized. She
couldn’t get Daddy to Front Street to be a cotton buyer, but she tried.
In 1922 she decided to go to work. Now the style
of the day was that ladies didn’t work; women did, but not ladies. She
was very definitely a lady. She couldn’t decide if she wanted to have a
photography shop, (there wasn’t one here,) or maybe a millinery shop
where she would make fashionable hats for ladies. But the Myers sisters
(Ike Myer’s sisters) already had one on the south side of the square.
Then she decided it would be a flower shop. This she did and was in
business for 55 years. When my folks moved to
town, they had a choice of houses from which to choose. It was to be a
cash transaction between Airliewood (for $,) or Colonsay Cottage (for
$2,000). They might have chosen Airliewood but it had been used as a TB
sanitarium by the last owner. Mother was afraid of germs and thought
maybe the disease would come with the house. Consequently, Colonsay
Cottage was chosen. I was born there in 1926. She had flower gardens
all around the yard where she grew flowers for her business, which was
in her home. Later on, she bought the building
where the Pegues Hair Shop at 115 North Memphis Street is. This
building burned in the 1950s and was replaced with one just like it.
Mother had a cafe in the building. She imported a cook named “O.P.” who
was a Philippino to be the chef. After that, she created a “Hair
Salon” (she had a time teaching the beauty operator not to answer the
phone by saying “Hair Saloon”.) Mother owned the shop but never worked
there. She was a real entrepreneur, and she was born in Waterford. She
lived to be 93 and I am thankful she was mine. She and my Daddy decided
my only brother would have a profession so they asked this scrawny
little 108-pound, 18-year-old boy, “James, do you want to be a doctor
or a lawyer?” He chose to be a doctor. My parents spent $10,000 putting
him through med school during the Depression. My
maternal grandfather was Rufus Burris who was born in South Carolina in
1851. His father died 5 months before she was born and he was
considered to have a special gift called the “Breath of Life”. When
people lay dying, he was called into breathe on them to make them
well. Grandpa had a black nurse who raised him. When he was twelve he
came to Mississippi to live with a cousin who lived in Waterford. We
always celebrated my mother’s New Year’s Eve birthday at Aunt Montie’s
house and included was my Daddy’s birthday, which was January 31 and
Aunt Annie Bonds’ (Bert’s mother) birthday, which was January 30. It
was always an event to look forward to and was always wonderful. My
parents were big workers in the Baptist church. My daddy was a deacon
and my mother taught Sunday School for decades. His name is on the
cornerstone of the church there today which was built in 1923. Quite
often, we would have an orphan from the orphans’ home in Jackson to
visit us for special occasions. The purpose of this epistle is to tell
others that being a person of fine character means everything. It lasts
into future generations. Mother was incredibly
honest, she never told a lie, she lived a Christian life and followed
the example of Christ throughout her life. She planned and designed her
life for the future. She was frugal with her money and made it go a
long way. The Lord was her partner and you can’t go wrong with Him as
your partner. Her life proves that advance plans carry you a long way. This is Berttia Bonds in her 1906 wedding dress that she sewed and designed herself. We have the dress at the museum.
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