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The Preacher’s Corner By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter What do you wear to cook in the kitchen? Yesterday I saw a TV commercial for software that
will turn your laptop PC into a fully-equipped cookbook and kitchen
guide. “Just right for the holidays!” It is obviously designed for folk
like me who are clueless in culinary affairs. Now, I will confess that
I have “Googled” a recipe or two, and am aware of the array of recipes
and other cooking helps now available via the Internet. Still,
one had better be careful about putting the computer too close to the
stove. For one thing it could melt, and for another, one could “gum up”
the works by frantically typing in questions with grease on the hands
and flour on the fingers. And have you noticed how the hosts of the
cooking shows (Emeril excepted) all appear without aprons, dressed in
pretty clothes, with rings on their fingers? I cannot believe anybody
could do serious cooking without an apron. Watching
that commercial for the computerized cookbook made me think of my
grandmother’s cookbook. I cannot imagine either my mother or her mother
thinking a computer could help them cook. So I got out grandmother’s
cookbook and leafed through it. It is one of the
things I saved to remind me of my grandmother, and it has a sort of
iconic place in my collection of family memorabilia. Not that I use
Grandmother’s cookbook particularly often. In fact, I sometimes go to
the grocery and buy some things to put in my refrigerator just in case
somebody happened to look. I would not want them to think I actually
exist on little more than Diet Coke, whole wheat bread, and “I Can’t
Believe It’s Not Butter!” (Well, Wendy’s and Cap’n D’s help.) Paging
through Grandmother’s cookbook brings back lots of memories. Really, it
is a stretch to call it a “book.” Actually it is a loose-leaf binder to
which sheets can be added by snapping the metal rings open and closed.
The hardback covers have long-ago worn out and disappeared. And at some
point, all the pages were filled, and so the ensemble is more like a
“package” of miscellaneous index cards, letters from friends and family
containing recipes, items torn out of Good Housekeeping and the like,
secured with rubber bands. One has to handle it carefully, or the
treasured memories of great dinners gone by will go flying in all
directions. Here in the handwriting of Mama and
her mother, my favorite aunts and cousins, and old family friends, are
the formulas for good times, Mississippi-style. There is not a word
from Julia Child, or any exponent of haute cuisine. Just good
old-fashioned Southern cooking in the era before Paula Dean brought
such things out into the mainstream. (Well, maybe Grandmother did use a
little less butter than Paula Dean.) Many of the
recipes were for desserts grandmother served to her canasta club. The
ladies outdid one another to have a colorful and inviting plate. Once,
at about age four, I got into the bottle of maraschino cherries for one
of Grandmother’s pear salads with a cream cheese and walnut filling
that was to be served to her early evening card party. I did not have
to be punished, for — no thank you — after eating that entire bottle,
I’ll never even look at a maraschino cherry again! I
wish I had a photo of Grandmother in her kitchen. But she would have
run to hide at the very thought of having her picture taken in her
apron. Nowadays, people build their houses so all the party guests can
gather in the kitchen. When Grandmother cooked,
there was a firm wall of partition between that work and the company
gathered up in the front room. The swinging door to the kitchen was
closed and children had to have a very good reason to intrude upon that
part of the house. Of course, in that era, a man never thought of
venturing into a kitchen. My cousins and I were
reared in the era when children sat at the table and waited to eat
until everyone was served, with plates passed around the long table and
with helpings from various steaming bowls and dishes added as the
plates passed the place where these items were located. And
because we were reared in that long-ago age before children’s dietary
intake was restricted to chicken strips and pizza, we actually sampled,
even if we did not like, such delicacies as eggplant, turnips, Brussels
sprouts, okra, and greens of every kind. As a result, many of these, as
an adult, I now actually enjoy! We also said the
blessing. Grandmother’s was not especially unique, but she taught me to
say it as my own, and I record it here simply because if your house is
like mine, it is not repeated as often as it should be said: “Our most
gracious heavenly Father: we thank thee for these and all thy
blessings. Bless this food to our nourishment, and us to thy service,
and make us mindful of the wants and needs of others; for Jesus’ sake.
Amen.” The same grace was said for great feasts
as well as for leftovers. And the last part was quite definitely
attached to the requirement that little boys must “clean their plates!”
Food was never wasted in our house. That was as particular a definition
of “sin” as my childhood theology could have produced. Grandmother’s
recipes are only marginally useful now. For one thing, she seldom
actually followed a recipe. She improved as she went along, and by the
time I was born she was so confident in her kitchen that I am sure she
seldom consulted a book. So most of the recipes are things other people
gave her. There is no record, for example, of how she made her
wonderful turkey dressing, peach pickle, or coconut layer cake without
which no great dinner in our house was complete. Grandmother
kept her cookbook in a top drawer of the counter second to the left of
the kitchen sink. The book was at the ready, right there with a ball of
string, rubber bands, the fish scaler, a device to open stubborn jar
lids, and all those other odds and ends one keeps in a kitchen but has
no particular place to put. When she did write
down a recipe, many details were assumed. Bob Bowen and I found this
out when reminiscing about Delta cooking, I mentioned grandmother had a
recipe for “Hebrew cookies,” about which there is nothing more Jewish
than a splash of Mogen David wine. All the ingredients are listed. But
then the recipe merely says “Bake until lightly browned.” How long, and
at what temperature? Grandmother knew. I went
through and moved all the recipes I remembered to the front of the
book. Some day I may feel adventurous enough to try and cook a few of
them, but for now, while I am on my diet, just reading through makes me
feel like I have dined as a king. I dare any computer software to make
you so happy as that! |