| Museuming
Lois Swanee
Museum Curator
Daddy’s
store on College Avenue
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Conway
Bonds and his helper, Cootie Brown |
My daddy was Conway Warren Bonds. He was
born in Waterford. His grandmother’s maiden name was Conway and
Dr. Warren of Waterford had delivered him. He was one of the Bonds boys
of which there were several. He was an avid sportsman. I remember him
coming home from hunting and he would have quail. That was my favorite
food (still is, but I don’t get much anymore.)
He also brought squirrels and would cook
them into a stew in a big pot in the back yard. His secret ingredient
was cheese. I remember him as an avid fisherman, too, and coming home
with lots of fish. He would go with his cronies to Moon Lake over by
Clarksdale to hunt or fish.
Are any of you old enough to remember
my daddy’s hamburger place? He was ahead of his day as a major
portion of his grocery store was the hamburger shop that opened onto
the sidewalk. The hamburgers cost a nickel and a Coke cost a nickel
so you could get lunch for a dime.
It was located where Jennie’s Florist
is today and for service there was a front window that slid open and
shut. It was the only place in town to buy hamburgers or hot dogs besides
the cafes.
The hamburgers were really delicious.
The hot dogs were split open and fried and to this day I love them cooked
this way. My brother, Jimmy was often the operator. I was some but not
too much.
I was running it one day and was in the
store alone and a stranger came inside to the inside counter as there
was this convenience also. He ordered a hamburger and a Coke then he
paid with a new crisp $20 bill. I had been hearing about counterfeit
bills and I knew that much change ($19.90) would deplete my moneybox.
I told the stranger he would have to walk across the street and get
his bill changed before he could pay. He did and it was okay.
My daddy’s store was a typical
grocery store of that period. At the same time in Memphis, Clarence
Saunders was inventing the self-service, modern grocery store, but this
was Holly Springs. The groceries and canned goods were on shelves with
a counter in the front. You pointed to what you wanted and a clerk put
it on the counter and sacked it for you. There was no such thing as
“self service.” You were waited on by a clerk.
In the very back of the store was a butcher
shop with a meat case in front. You decided what you wanted and Daddy
would cut the meat you chose on the spot. There was no such thing as
pre-packaged meat. It might ruin and that would be too costly. I remember
going by the store one freezing winter day and Daddy asked me to stay
there while he went to the bank. I was 15 and my older sister had given
me her old fur coat, which was black sheared beaver (it gave me a life-long
love of fur coats and I’ve always had one or more. Once I traded
a Great Dane puppy for one. I would freeze in winter without one.)
When my daddy left, I climbed up on the
kitchen stool and prepared to read the newspaper while he was gone,
but alas! Here comes a customer, right back to the meat counter. I unperched
myself and coming to the meat counter I asked, “May I help you?”
The customer looks over the meat and
says, “I’ll take a pound of liver!” I pushed up the
sleeves of my beautiful fur coat reached in the meat case and took out
the chunk of raw liver. I laid it onto the chopping block. I didn’t
have a clue as to what I was doing. I took the meat cleaver and went
whack right down the middle.
Then I placed it on a scale, which was
on the meat counter with the customer watching my every move. Exactly
one pound! The customer says, “My, you can really cut meat!”
I would have been in a dilemma if it hadn’t been right. It was
the only piece of meat I ever cut! At least that kind of meat didn’t
have a bone in it, as that would have complicated the sale.
My daddy had a farm where he raised the
produce, plus chickens for eggs and a dairy complete with cows with
which he stocked his own store. He also raised cotton, had an orchard
with apple, pear, plum trees and I do remember him trying cherry trees.
He raised sugar cane on his farm and I do remember him cutting me pieces
of cane to chew and delight in. He raised watermelons and cantaloupes.
All this from that farm which turned
out to be a part of the city today. My daddy did all of this and during
the Depression he gave away and helped people keep going.
At that time, a person could call his
telephone number, which was 1-2-4, and place orders over the phone of
what was wanted and he would deliver it to their door. He always had
boys to help and they worked as delivery boys too. Daddy was a big jokester
and had a delightful sense of humor.
One day, to play a joke on Will Knopp
across the square, he sent his delivery boy to buy some polka-dotted
paint. In the 1930s Frank Strickland came in the store asking for a
bone for his dog. Daddy knew Frank didn’t have a dog, but he and
his sister lived in the past grandeur of the Strickland house and were
on starvation row, so Daddy would cut them a bone and leave lots of
meat on it for his mangy dog.
My daddy did all of this while being
a deacon in the First Baptist Church. He never missed a Sunday. When
he died in 1950, the church was over brimming with people, black and
white; all were his friends because he had been a friend to so many.
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