| The
Preacher’s Corner
By Rev. Dr. Milton Winter
Embarrassing
when I flub my words
Recently I received a wonderful gift,
the volume on “Language” from the revised edition of the
Encyclopedia of Southern Culture. Since preachers, along with journalists,
teachers and lawyers, are people who get their living by words, this
volume on “language,” especially as we Southerners use it,
will be very interesting to me.
Having said how important language is
to my calling, you can understand how embarrassing it is to me when
I flub my words. Recently I did so, while leading our congregation in
saying the 23rd Psalm, which we do each time we receive the Holy Communion.
I am not sure how many churches use the
23rd Psalm in connection with the Lord’s Supper, but it has always
seemed to me a lovely custom. I first learned it at the church I served
in Chicago where it was a custom going back as far as anyone could remember.
I brought the practice with me to Holly Springs, and I think it has
come to mean as much to our congregation as it does to me.
The 23rd Psalm is one of the few texts
you can count on a mixed group of people to know by heart. There are
fewer and fewer things that people can repeat from memory. When we say
the Lord’s Prayer, people get confused over words — the
Methodists and Episcopalians have their “trespasses,” and
we Presbyterians have our “debts.”
Besides that, most of us are not encouraged
to memorize much any more. Not everyone knows the words to the National
Anthem, and virtually none of us can sing anything beyond the first
verse — there are six or eight — and we had to learn them
all in sixth grade but I confess they have completely faded from my
recollection.
But the 23rd Psalm, recited according
to its text in the King James Version is one of the great remembered
treasures of the Western mind, and a minister can still count on a congregation
in a service of worship to be able to repeat it without a printed text
to prompt. People from any and all denominations can do so, as of course,
can members of Hebrew temples and synagogues. People in the hospital
hovering in the twilight between consciousness and coma, as well patients
with dementia who cannot recognize their closest relatives, have said
this Psalm with me — defying all predictions as to their ability
to know or remember.
The 23rd Psalm is a passage of literature
that has been known and believed by more people than any other in history,
and if you can say it, you are uniting in a common belief that is the
most widely treasured in the history of humankind. It is etched into
the “hard drive” of the mind, and seems to me to be one
of the last things we remember at the end of our pilgrimage on this
earth. It is a good way of committing one’s spirit to the eternal.
That said, you can imagine how appalled
I was when I forgot the words during a recent service in our church!
My forgetfulness is illustrative of the unconscious nervousness that
may affect even a practiced public speaker. I tried to cover my lapse
by feigning a cough — but I could not think of the words.
I was grateful that my congregation was
kind enough to keep on with the recitation, for my friends Rook and
Marie Moore told me how the minister at the Fifth Avenue Presbyterian
Church in New York City once forgot the words to the Apostles Creed.
The entire congregation hesitated, then halted, then burst into peals
of laughter. Such is a congregation’s delight when we usually
self-assured clergy reveal our fallibility and frailty to our flocks.
They like, I think, to know we are as human as they are.
Sometimes a flub relieves the tension.
As it happened, the Communion where I forgot the words was a particularly
somber service, as Communions sometimes are for us Presbyterians. We
are not always as good at “celebrating” the Sacrament, which
is a verb that is properly used to describe the administration of the
Eucharist. It is, after all, as that good word means, a service of joyful
thanksgiving.
Anyhow, I think my mistake caused a few
smiles — and it reminded me of the time when my friend Jimmy McClanahan
flubbed the Psalm while leading the graveside service for my mother’s
interment some years ago at our family cemetery in Clinton, Ky. It was
a beautiful December day, and the clouds framed a deepening purple sunset
over fields of winter wheat stretched out to the horizon, in all directions,
beyond the bare-branched trees of that old familiar hillside where so
much of my family’s sacred dust resides, and where my ashes, too,
will someday await the coming of resurrection morn.
All that was needed was a bagpiper, but
those clouds with their portent of an approaching snowstorm supplied
a music sufficient for the wistfulness of that particular afternoon.
So when Jim forgot the words, my cousins and I found amusement at his
predicament, so that caused us to beam reassuring smiles that encouraged
him to go on. We realized immediately that this little hitch was just
what was needed to get us over the hump.
They say that every great picture or
performance should have a little imperfection to remind us that the
artist or musician is human. You and I are not perfect and no matter
how hard we may try to project that image to the world, God, in a divine
sense of good humor, will remind us of that — sometimes at the
most inopportune moments. But I am convinced God does this to relieve
us of the burden of trying to be what we are not and cannot be.
It is a reminder that humility and forgiveness
are among the saving graces of life.
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